DIVORCE COACHING

What Is Divorce Coaching?

Divorce Coaching is a directional process intended to move an individual forward towards a better place. A coach provides encouragement, enthusiasm and motivation as well as an objective perspective on the matters at hand.

Why Use a Divorce Coach?

It’s easy to get caught up in the madness of divorce. In doing so, many people waste precious resources in the wrong place and consequently find no resolution. A coach can assist in formulating appropriate plans of action to focus on core issues and save money in the long run.

What It’s Not

Divorce coaching is neither therapy nor legal advice. I encourage all clients to consult a qualified professional to address any psychological or law-related matters.

What I Do

As a divorce coach, I assist you in harnessing the appropriate energy to propel you through the separation process and into a bright new beginning. Using a solution-conscious approach, I work with you to discover personal goals and a strategy to reach them. This could mean determining viable communication channels, rules for communication, assisting with a parenting plan or helping you find the best new house, car, job, etc. Each session is tailored to your individual needs and all decisions are up to you.

If you’re interested in finding out how you might benefit from divorce coaching, I offer an initial phone consultation at no charge. To schedule a session, feel free to contact me.

MEDIATION

Why Use A Mediator?

It’s easy to get caught up in the madness of divorce. In doing so, many people waste precious resources in the wrong place and consequently find no resolution. A mediator can assist in formulating appropriate plans of action to focus on core issues and save money in the long run.

What Is Mediation? (The clinical answer)

Mediation is a process in which discussion is facilitated by a neutral third party. Through mediation, willing disputants are encouraged to speak for themselves and construct creative solutions to best meet the needs of all involved.

Mediation With Me (The Human Answer)

Above, I said that a mediator is a neutral third party, and technically that’s the way it’s supposed to be. But the truth is I’m not entirely neutral. I’m not neutral because I care. I care about individuals, and I care about relationships. I have a passion for productive communication and equality, and I bring that passion to the table every time. I’m not a robot, I’m a human being who’s here to help other human beings connect in a meaningful way.
As mediator, my job is to empower clients to have a conversation and resolve a conflict between themselves. By setting ground rules and outlining pertinent issues, I help to structure communication for a productive discussion. Through listening, reflecting and reframing, I help individuals to better understand each other’s needs, thus inspiring a mutually beneficial resolution.
It’s important for you to know that I’m not a lawyer, nor am I a judge. I don’t give legal advice. I’m not here to take sides, determine right and wrong or even propose solutions. Here’s a better way to say that: I recognize that you are the expert in your own life and family matters, and in mediation you have the power to chart your own course.

EDUCATION

I love to talk about divorce. Specifically, I’m passionate about compassion, healthy healing and my GOOD Divorce™ Principles. I strive to empower individuals and inspire a more mindful approach to the separation process. I offer various online challenges and webinars, as well as web-based courses and community education events. Check the calendar dates and details.

Speaking and Custom Workshops

Are you looking for a speaker for your event? Want to work together to inspire healthy healing where you live, work, worship or practice? I'm available for meet-and-greets, lunch-and-learns and customized workshops to fit your vision. Let’s talk! Contact me with your idea, and we’ll collaborate on the details.

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